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Been divorced for awhile and I'm finally interested in this guy. I'm a little shy until I warm up.





Here's the scenario taking place at work!





I am pretty sure this guy at work and I are having a bit of sexual tension between us. In fact, I'm absolutely convinced of it.


There have been numerous times where we stare at each. Like if I come into the cafeteria and he's there, he'll lift his head up and stare into my eyes and it's like we're talking w/o speaking. We have done this countless time. We been in a hallway before and I'll be at one end of it and he'll be at the other and we lock eyes and stay locked until we come near and then I've said "hello and he replies, hello and how are you." Other times it's like he gets so close to me and w/o touching me I feel this intense chemistry/energy. I've noticed a few times that when I'm going one way and he's going the other - he'll like turn around and come back my way. Sometimes I feel like we both keep our heads down when we are near each other - other times not.


Once he looked up under his brow and gave me this sly smile as he held eye contact with me.


Another time he came into cafe and when I turned around his eyes were looking at my boots - he was checking my high heeled boots out.





Do you think this guy is interested in me? We work in seperate teams and never together. We both seem shy but it feels as though I have sexual chemistry with him. Would he keep looking for 1.5 years at me if he wasn't interested in me?





I sometimes freeze up around him and notice that he has gotten very red in the face when he's around me - not at all times but sometimes.



There is definitely some tension and chemistry there. However, before you visualize yourself bedding this hottie, actually engage him in a conversation. Talk about the weather or something. Make yourself a little more available to him and see what happens. You don't want to read too much into it because he may have a girlfriend or be married then you will be hurt. After three or four conversations, if he is truly interested and available he will make his move. You are just kinda making it a little easier for him. Ya dig? Much love.




I think maybe you should either invite him over for dinner or go out. Sounds like both of you are interested in each other. Maybe he thinks you aren't interested or somebody told him you are still married. If it were me I would give him a note so your not the talk of the office asking him about a date or dinner and see where it goes from there.




Hello! What's the problem here? We can cut the sexual tension with a knife! Next time you two are close talk to him and actually have a REAL conversation! Don't keep playing these games with him. You don't want some other woman to take him off the market. Make your move girl!




Are you sure that he is just shy too and not married or in a relationship?





If he isn't - seems like you should ask him out for coffee or something as something is definitely there.




Well you two don't seem that shy to me what with all that eye locking and all! Why don't you initiate a conversation after all of this time? He definitely seems interested.




I think he might be interested in you. But find out if he is married.




GO FOR IT,YOU ONLY LIVE 1 TIME! p.s. put those boots on again!