How do you make the first time hurt less?

I have herd the first time of sex hurts like hell. How do you make the first time hurt less? I really want to know.



Get married first.




There%26#039;s only one way, penetration. I%26#039;ve heard that you can do it yourself with a sex toy, but it%26#039;s gonna hurt either way. I guess the only good thing about that option is that you won%26#039;t have the negative memory of the first guy who did that. Inevitably, the pain ruins that first experience, especially if he freaks out from the blood.




Lubrication for sure. Foreplay would help with that too. It will draw blood to the area and offer the body%26#039;s natural lubrication. But it will hurt a bit still probably. Not like hell. And it gets better after that. Just relax as much as you can. See if you can start off with a massage or something like that.




its not as bad as you think but yes it hurts for one be 100% sure you are ready take your time lots of foreplay relax don%26#039;t hold your breath take long deep breath inhale and then at that moment exhale don%26#039;t tense up i know that%26#039;s hard to say but it is a muscle if you tense up it will hurt even more make sure your partner knows to take it slow because it is your first time use lots of lubrication ky jelly%26#039;s good and take your time i cant say it enough slow is better make sure you are extremely turned on (you may even want to consider asking him to finger you with alot of lube just slowly ) when you are ready for it to begin let him know and at first just ask him to insert the head a couple times the a lil more then a lil as you are ready make sure you are in a place where you can relax and if need be make noise scream yell whatever you feel inside at that moment let it out enjoy it just be sure you are comfortable and ready good luck have fun!




Do it with the person you really love. Don%26#039;t do it just because your friends do it. Just keep your focus on your passion for your partner, and you%26#039;ll never notice the pain of %26quot;first-entry%26quot;.





A very good foreplay will do. Romantic setting. no one is forced or pressured to do it.





i hope you%26#039;re already of legal age to have sex... if you%26#039;re too young, it sure would hurt like hell..




No it does not. what hurts you is the wrong belief that you think it will.


don%26#039;t worry and relax.


when I had sex the first time I was so tense that it took my boyfriend hours. then I did not even feel it. ( I mean the hurt : )))




It doesn%26#039;t hurt at all. Trust me, I%26#039;m sure all your friends are telling you all kinds of crap about sex, I bet none of them have had it! Don%26#039;t worry about it, no it won%26#039;t hurt you, either of you!




Make sure your partner is poorly endowed, use lots of lube, and go very slowly.




buy KY lubricant at walgreens. have fun.




take it very slow and easy. Make sure your heart is in it all the way and your body will answer.




Honestly, I don%26#039;t even remember if it did or not now. It was almost 20 years ago-lol.





I definitely would%26#039;ve been wiser with the person and the timing though :(




Try to relax, don%26#039;t rush it, and use some lube :)




kiss and cuddle a lot and for a long time.. and take it slow... i hope you%26#039;re a major!!


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