How do I get over being shy about sex?

I'v been with this guy several times and he wants me to do more(as in bjs and other positions) I'd like to but I'm just really shy to do anything different or afraid he'll make fun if I'm not good at it idk what to do



Well the reason why you are shy about trying new things with him is because your not that comfortable having sex with him as yet. Yes i know you said that you had sex with him several times, but you may not have connected with him in such a way as yet which makes you feel very comfortable with him and also which makes you feel as though you can completely open up yourself to him. And until you feel comfortable with him you are going to be shy to try new things. What you should do is tell your guy friend that you are not ready to start doing those things as yet as you don't feel comfortable doing those sort of things as yet. And if he really cares about you he will accept your decision to wait until you are comfortable. I also say wait until you are comfortable because if you do those things he wants you to do, first of all you will be shy about it and also you will feel strange and you won't enjoy it and also he mighten enjoy it because you won't be performing to your best. Just tell him how you feel and wait until your ready, you shouldn't let him pressure you into doing things you don't want to do. You have to remember sex is for both of you to enjoy and not only for one person. And you should both feel comfortable and when you are you enjoy it much more. And if he cares for you he will respect your decision to wait until you are ready and until you feel comfortable. Hope i helped.




If you're shy about it, that means you're not ready. If this guy is pushing you and you aren't ready or don't want to be sexual with him, you need to be honest with him and tell him. If he doesn't understand, he's a jerk and you're better off without him.




Your natural reserve does you proud. If he's the one, you'll know it. If your hesitating, there might be a very good reason. Trust your instincts.