Does he see me as his future wife?

yesterday i was on the phone with my new bf and he made a joke about something and i said to him that i have pity with his future wife, he said wat r u talking about? dont u wanna be my future wife? i said "yes but maybe later ur gonna dump me and stuff". he said then that i never have to be insecure about us and that he is being serious about us. he then asked me at wat age i wanted to have his kids, i told him at 26yrs and he said oohh i thought 23yrs and we laughed.


but am now kinda wondering, is he seeing me as his future wife and mother of his kids or wat? wat do u guys think? we are both19 and still go to school



He may see you as the person he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Yes your only 19 but that doesn't mean it couldn't happen! I'm married to the man i started dating when we were both 16 and we have 2 kids and very happy so if this is something you want go for it!! It could work out for you!




Many poeple say things when they are in a weird situation like that, that they might think is what they want at the time but your mind is always changing. If you are ment to be with one another, things will turn out how they are ment to be. It is all time. I wouldn't worry about it because things in life should not be pre planned. One day you will see




He really likes you and is just "testing the water" to see how you feel about him. Anything is possible down the line and it sounds like in his mind you are someone that he could see a future with. just give it some time....good luck.




He is giving you respect and honesty and loves you. It might change so enjoy it but dont worry about it. Let things happen naturally. But if he is really new then be careful.




Probably, which is normal at your age. Just keep talking about it for a while and just focus on school and having fun for now.




Whatever. Even if he is serious, you are 19. It will change. And there's no reason to settle down at 19 anyway.




He probably loves u that much that he (NOW) wants u 2 become his future wife...


Ure at the beginning- it's hard 2 find out if u r or not, U'll find out in a few years..




Stop worrying and just enjoy yourself. You'll find out soon enough, no need to rush.




He said you don't have to be insecure about us and that he is serious,so.....there is your answer.




why don't you ask him. can't you talk to him.




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Nope honey...he is probably stil crazy about new love so dont get ur hopes high out of this.