WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT MY MOM......?

ok 9 years ago my mom married a man we all hate then last october he tried to kill my mom and she kicked him out now she brought him back shes keeps changing her mind


like rapidly changing her mind


1 Minuet hes gone and 3 hours later hes back again and we like n the country witch completely ruined my life


i cant talk to my mom she gets vary upset when i bring anything up that revolves around her and my step dad


she keeps promising were going to move and that shes going to kick him out for good its been 8 years of this and i am now 16 i have lost 8 years of my life and i don't know what else to do


i cant move out i am physically disabled i cant call CPS i have a brother and i want him with his mom but how do i tell her that she cant keep doing this and she has to make a decision already


but how do i do it with out her getting up and running away


when i ask her about moving all she says is maybe i want that maybe to change already





she even went on vacation this past week to make up her mind and she still hasn't



I would suggest moving in with your real dad. If you dont want to or can't, explain to your mom your feeling and be persistent. If she is still undecided, give her a scare. Pretend like your going to leave, and head off. Maybe then she'll realize. If then she's still unsure, go to a friends house and spend the night there. Ask your mom to choose between you and your step dad.





If she still chooses your step dad, you and your siblings will just have to endure. Only two more years. But, chances are she'll choose you.




Hard one for sure, sit her down and say Mom I am 16 years old and for half of my life you have ruined it with this idiot, how can you even call yourself a Mom and knowing what you have done to your kids because of your reckless behavior.




Wow that is a sticky situation. If your mom gets too mad or upset when you talk to her can you write your feelings down for her to read in privacy? Your mom needs to know her actions effect her chilldren and that is number 1.