So if I am a virgin at 30 am I

Hypothetical question.





Any chance I might be missing out on a major part of my anatomy/life?



pretty pathetic. some parts of life you just hafta experience




I was a virgin until 19, but I was not "pure" lol.





I was frisky, horny, and I explored my sexuality at will.





So, if you explored your sexuality through kissing, touching, or foreplay you are defnintely not pure.








I wouldn't say you are missing out on anything. Some people don't value sexual experiences at all so it all depends on how you would feel having not done anything for 30 years.





Personally, if I go a year or more without so much as a kiss, I feel like I am missing out.





Just being honest.




I wouldn't say that you'd be missing anything major, other than perhaps a person to love you and share the bond of intercourse. So what if you're a virgin still? Even at 30 why suddenly rush it? You aren't even at your peak yet. Find someone special to share yourself with, then let love take over.





You're not pathetic. Virginity is not something to be ashamed of.




Eh. I don't think it means either. It bothers me when people get all high and mighty because they're still virgins, like it makes them better than anyone.





By the same token, having had sex doesn't make you better than anyone either.





It's just a choice you've made. Some people choose not to eat meat, and most people respect that. If you've made a choice not to have sex, then that's a totally respectable choice as well.




I think you prob should have met your husband by now...usually people that don't want sex til marriage get married in like their early 20s...so it's a little strange that you haven't wanted to try it out yet. But it won't matter to a guy to be honest, as long as a woman hasn't been with loads of guys i don't think they care.




You are the purest form of human rationality and good taste. You are so rare and so special! Good on you for being different and having enough common sense to know that intimacy is not only sacred but should be special and saved for the one you intend to be eternal with!




It's YOUR decision if, when and how you want to have sex. A lot of people think its best to wait till marriage or at least until the right person comes along but some don't. Bottom line is do what YOU think its best and forget what everyone else says.




it means your pure, never been touched. you don,t find too many 30 yr. olds that are still a virgin today.




No, it's called a 30 year old virgin.... MILF




nope its not pathetic your just waiting for the right person to come along




NO I JUST MEAN THAT YOU HAVNT FALLEN IN LOVE YET THAT'S GOOD DO IT WITH SOME ONE YOUR CARE FOR NOT JUST ANYONE




if you are good looking,you are a prize