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She denied me back then because she choosed to stay with her abusive bf who hits her and treated her bad and also is a drugi. She lost her v to him at 15. I had not seen her since i was 15 i em now 23. I have a good life , i have a lamborghini, have my own house.





P.s. We had kissed many times, and had sex so she said she was into me but loved her loser bf.





I had not talked to her ever since i changed my #. Note that she treated me bad like ignore me, talk smack like i'm just hating on her. So we stopped talking and got into a fight.





I really want to see her face when she sees me. theres this big party going down this week at my buds house and word is she will be there.





The question is what would you do if you were her in that moment?, and should i approach her or just ignore her and have my bud say you remember him.





If any of you live in Los angeles hit me up. I will invite you!.



Ignore the crap out of her. And if she comes up to you, don't phase her. If you still like her though be nice!




It sounds like u deserve better it shes an adult she made the decision that she was going to stay with her bf that is a druggie and a bad influence. People like that don't normally change and don't want to change. As you said you have a good life don't screw that up trying to get with her again when you could find a woman that is perfect for you that is sensible and caring who really loves you, hope this helps




well i am from in england so don't think i would make it to the party but i really think you play it cool and just pretend you haven't even realized she is there. by the sounds of it she doesn't deserve you as you have tried to be there for her and she obviously isn't ready to make the decision to leave the bf. show her whats she missed out on and have a good time.




I think that if you really wanna see her, then you should approach her and talk to her yourself. See how she's doing, strike up a conversation with her. Who knows maybe you two could be friends, or possibly have a relationship again or something. Are you still interested in her? You never know, could be meant to be for you two to see each other again. good luck.




Never let the girl be the confident one in the relationship...because then she can do whatever the hell she wants and your feelings don't matter. I say forget the past because it sounds like she has a lot of issues. Don't be the kind of guy who "helps you get through your problems". That's a bunch of unnecessary crap that you will have to put up with. Go find yourself a girl you're into and have some fun. You're still young.




You basically answered your own question.... You were young, 8 years have passed and you are doing good for yourself. So do you really want to let someone back into your life that treated you like that? And on the same note, Why should you care if she is there or sees you.... She didn't care then.





You're obviously better off. Keep it that way and remember to keep your head up :)




i live in l.a. ghahahaha but it's really up to you. but as the bigger, better man you should approach her. make small talk. catch up on things and mend your relationship with her




I think you should just leave her be, she has treated you badly and said cruel things. She doesn't really want to leave the abusive bf




Ignore her treat her like she has treated you you were just a back up for her. if you Ignore a women and act like your not interested then they start to chase you




if you want to get back together,just tell her she was always right.girls love to hear their right. if you dont i cant help you.




Ignore her, don't get mixed up with her. I'm not usually a judgmental person but she will most likely screw up your life.




I would sell the Lambo and buy myself a life.




She sounds like a very promiscuous loser!


MOVE ON!




ignore her she doesnt deserve to be talked to by you




well,make sure you show her what she has missed out on. you are better off without her and just be happy.




OK.. WHY? I say just let things happen as they happen. Don't force things one way or another. That was years ago..you both should by now be different people. If you see her, be an adult. Don't let old dried up feelings rule your life. Or are they old and dried up? I think not. I think you want her to think she made a huge mistake and look at you as her knight in shinning armor and if it don't happen you will again be crushed. Save the heartache and expect nothing.. that may be what you will get. And if not proceed with extreme caution, she hurt you before she might just do it again.


How can I say what I would do if I were her? I have no clue as to where her head is or how she feels about you or life in general. There isn't anyway to know. All things will be whats supposed to be.