The boy thinks I

I have an employee who I believe doesn't really appreciate the help I give him. I give him generous advice about how to stay healthy in the cold and how to wear his hair. I telling him from the heart about how he should deal with his wife and I sometimes go the extra mile by following him home and watching him to make sure nothing bad happens to him and sometimes when their arguments get too tense I call the house and ask to talk to the wife and give a false name and once I stole her car keys so that she could learn some respect.





I don't want to seem like I am judging the boy to harshly, but I am not completely sure that he really appreciates the heartfelt attention he is getting. He has told me just to let him do his work and pay him, which is fine, of course I will pay him. Once he said he would call the police, and I thought at the time that he was making a joke. But the other day when I was reading the text messages on his phone, his wife referred to me as "the stalker" and I know that she has an immature attitude, but I fear that she may be negatively influencing her husband.





What's an old-timer to do?



I feel for you. I had the same problem when I tapped my ex boyfriend's phone, hacked into his financial statements (to make sure he was balancing his checkbook), quit my job to follow him 24/7 (to make sure he was safe) and slept on his lawn at night to make sure no burglars got him. The nerve of these people when all we are trying to do is look out for them!