So, my bf %26amp; I have been going out for 3 years. Getting straight down to it, we%26#039;ve never had sex. Yes, we fool around all the time. But, when it comes to him actually inserting, he never wants to. I%26#039;ll ask all the time, %26quot; Why don%26#039;t you want to?%26quot; And he answers,%26quot; Because I%26#039;m afraid of getting you pregnant.%26quot; I%26#039;ve also asked him if he%26#039;s seeing anyone else. He says, of course not. So, I%26#039;m totally confused on why he wouldn%26#039;t want to. And, I understand where he%26#039;s coming from...but, its not like we%26#039;re going to have unprotected sex. So, do you think something else is going on w/ him?
i am living that exact thing right now. I am totally paranoid of getting my g/f pregnant. im not cheating or anything its just that a child is not what we need right now and i am pro life she is pro choice so its like kinda need to be careful. Just try and assure him your on the pill taking it corectly have him use condoms or pull out if hes about to be done. this can reduce chances and make him feel a little less worried. also tell him to empty his tank before hand then there is even less c__m so its one more step. The pill, condom, and pulling out if he is sreally worried should help put him at rest. Plus let him know about your shedule me knowing when my g/f is on helps me feel a little more secure about not being pregnant.
IS HE A VIRGIN.. if he is he could just be afraid to have sex period, he might think you wont like it or something on that line. and if he really is scared of getting you prego, then just try talking to him about it like ask him and try to fix it. CONDOMS, BIRTH CONTROL, MORNING AFTER PILL, and im not sayign this is goo but just if you do get prego ABORTIONS. there are plenty of ways to get out of it. and as far as the %26quot;seeing another person%26quot; goes, i dont know i highly doubt it.
well i think he%26#039;ll do it in the coming days.(you know what you are doing by mentioning %26quot;unprotected sex%26quot;).a rubber maybe handy.just be prim and proper in the days to come.and dont make any move.if he makes a move just move away (as if you didnt want any!) soon he will be knocking on the door!
i dont think so i think hes telling the truth, all you got to do is take that fear away from him nd assure him that the risk is not very likely when having protected sex
You should ask maybe hes a virgin and is just hiding it, or hes just not that really serious with you.
no protection is 100 % foolproof unless ur planing to use the pill. a condom, spremacide cuz one alone u can still get pregnant so maybe seriously he is worried about it
he could be totally opposite from other guys and just not be ready to go all the way...shocker.
he might just want to save it for marriage
This sound weird to me. I can understand the not wanting to get pregnant, but I have never heard of a man going sooo far and then backing out at the last step. Usually things get pretty heated up and backing out the last thing on the mind. Are you his first?
Maybe he could be a little scared. Offer to take birth control on top of using something else. I don%26#039;t want to get pregnant but I still find a way to have sex.
Basically if he wanted to, he would find a way. Even if he asked you to use 5 different things. Why hasn%26#039;t he came up with Ideas and solutions? hmmm..
Good luck I hope it works out.
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