Ever feel so horrible you WISH something would happen to you?

In my case, a big fight with the b/f.


I sit here thinking to myself I wish something happens to me on the way home so he can realize what he has and stop being such an ***. Ofcourse nothing harsh. But a fender bender. This is the strangest thought I've ever had. I am also in the worst mood ever so its probably from that. IDk im so confused right now. Help



This is pretty common. It's called a "Defeated Hero" fantasy. In it, you are in an accident or slightly injured (but enough to end up in hospital) and whoever has done you wrong "sees the error of his ways, realizes how special and important you are to him, and mends his behaviors because he was so afraid" when he hears what happened.





Sweetie, that's a delusion, and it won't help a crummy relationship. If your bf is a jerk sometimes, maybe he's not the right bf for you - ever consider just dating someone else? I know it hurts because you care for him, but if he doesn't care for you the same way, why on earth would you wish harm on yourself? Move on to someone who cares for you as much as you care for him, don't waste time on a doofus who doesn't appreciate you - and don't wind yourself up in the hospital over a jerk like that.




hi. I'm feeling just like that right know, but for another reason. I know it sucks, but I'm like failing all of my classes (I'm usually a straight A's students) and right know I feel like getting into a hospital b/c of a disease and forgetting about school.





The thing is that, if that really happened, I would hate myself forever for thinking about it.


The moment I think about that, I feel really bad, so I hope you don't think about it too much, b/c if it really happened, you would hate yrself 4ever.





:D if that person really is your best friend, in a week from know, u will laugh at this fight.




Yes, but not over a relationship and I wished for death. I was depressed. Be careful what you wish for because something a lot worse can happen. Work out the problems in your relationship or maybe you need to get out of it if you're hoping for destructive things to happen to you just to get your boyfriend's attention. Good luck and be careful.