People these days are so worried about living their lives in the modern times..but why? People got along just fine in the olden days. Actually people got along way better then we do now. Relationships were stronger due to a more sound moral structure. Also men/women were more inclined to be a support system for their mate. Family's did things together more often, resulting in a better upbringing for children. Even in the work environment...do you notice how people dress for interviews or even on the job. Jeans, holy shirts, short dresses. What ever happen to a nice pair of slacks and an appropriate shirt for a "LADY" even a modest skirt. Men dress pants and a button down? I'd prefer to live back then. Mind you I'm 20 and feel this way... anyone else?
Nothing is wrong with the old fashion way. A lot of folks don't pass on down the values or views of good up bringing. We spend so much time on things that means so little the the little things that means a lot are foreign to most family nowadays. Sorry to say but it going to get worst if folks don't teach their kids the good old fashion way.
yeah. i agree.
and the tv shows for kids today? what happened to sesame street from when i was a kid, none of the wierd sexual innuendos like on hannah montana.
and why is wrong to be married at age 20?
Yes...i feel the same way. I actually posted just a few minutes ago about relationships and how people aren't honest anymore...etc.
those days are gone
its time to start something new
we cant relive the past
Its easy to look on the past as being better then the present. We are not there!
My boyfriend and I have this argument all the time. I have to remind him that if things went back to those ways we also wouldn't have all the good things that we do now. Sure there wasn't divorce...this also meant that if a man beat his wife she would stay anyway....sure famlies were more stable but that is because women didn't work. I agree that people look like garbage at work however in order to have the great personal freedom we have today it means that some will do things that others don't like.
Before the sexual revolution women were in a crappy spot. Imagine what it must have been like to have to rely solely on the males in your life. Maybe you have a great dad but what about women who don't. Imagine if after graduating high school your only options were to get married and have babies (yes birth control was illeagle) or have a lower paying job then a man (double wage standards)...hey until fairly recently in many states it was legal for a man to rape his wife...
I'm not a feminist, I just appriciate the face that I'm a 25 year old female who owns a small business (not likely back then!) and lives alone (scandalous!) I do wish that people dressed better though!
PS there are not a lot of Ladies anymore, gentelman either! sad
Family & Relationships
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
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