Why is it all about sex???

I recently got dumped by my ex gf after it turned out she was a slapper. She gave me a handjob and then dumped me 3 days later. I was later talkin to a mate of mine who used to go out with her a few times and it turns out shes done it a million times before. The last 3 girls before her who I liked turned out to be pretty much the same.


Why are relationships all about sex?


I never want another relationship now. I got better things to do in my life.


Why is it all about sex? I feel like ive been used.



Omg,


This is so strange reading this from a boy's side of the story!


Usually it's the other way around :|


But tbh babe, not all relationships are about sex, i think you may just be hanging out with the wrong girls.


Maybe you should change your taste or get to know girl a bit better before getting into a relationship with them.




it depends on who you are with. some people make it that way, but you have to just sort of wait around until you find a relationship with someone who wants you for more than sex. i have been with lots of guys who just wanted that, and i was hurt again and again, but i have been in my current relationship for a year and it about more than sex. Girls are slutty, and most of the time its because they think that is what guys want, try to show them that you want more. they will either take it and you will end up in a great relationship or they will leave you and in that case they are simply not worth it.




Not all relationships are just about that. But there are a lot of people who think it is and that is all they want. You just have to take your time in dating and in a relationship. Know that when your are dating someone, you do not have to have sex with then right away. Wait a while and see how the relationship goes before doing anything like that. Sex should be special and not just something you because you like it or just bored.




Wow I agree I want to give you a hug as well. Its usually vise versa. Don't worry that girl will soon regret what she did to you and what goes around comes around. One day she is really going to care for someone but then he is going to end up breaking her heart. Just forget about it, its really not worth it. You'll soon meet a great girl who loves and respects you. You sound like a great guy though!





Best of luck & be strong!




dude i wanna give u a hug!





its mostly men who only want sex im glad to see that u dont.......sorry i cant help you with your problem you see im da girl most guys wanna F**K then dont care about after. but im just so happy to know there not all the same!