Family & Relationships

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Question About Sex...........?

My sister has been going out with this guy for a few months now and lets just say hes not purest guy around. My sister is a virgin far as I know, but I'm worried she might do something stupid and lose her virginity to this asshole. From rumors I've heard that he has tried to make her do something and I'm not worried about that because it's just rumors, but as of right now as I'm typing this question she is in his truck. My dad is downstairs and she is a nice girl and I think she can do better, but her being in the truck with this guy....should I be worried. I can't imagine what they might be doing, what should I do.





Please no asshole comments



I am glad you are concerned son, this shows you care about her and your heart and mind is where it should be.


Your PARENTS on the other hand should NOT be giving her opportunity to "lose her virginity"When you become a parent, remember this and remember it well and do not make the same mistake as your parents and many others are making.




TBH there's nothing you can really do about it apart from let her make her own decisions or make her own mistakes, it's her life if you think about it. The thing that would be most likely to push her further in to his arms is you criticising him or trying to persuade her to dump him etc. We've all known women who have fallen for guys who are obviously a**eholes & meddling in it never works, it usual has the exact opposite effect.




You should just let it be. Every girl loses her virginity.


If she thinks its the right thing she will do it but if he breaks her heart afterward you should hunt him down and cut off his cock.


Thats what I would do.




talk to her. the best way to keep a girl out of emotional pain is to love her. tell her you're concerned and you think she should wait. and tell her she's worth waiting for.




First step GET OUT TO THE TRUCK! second step SEE WHAT THEY ARE DOING! thrid step if they are doing something bad TELL YOUR DAD!








or tell your dad right before doing anything.




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Well I guess it depends on how old your sister is. If she is an adult then you might have to step back and let her make her own decisions. All you can do is tell her how you feel and give her the best advice you can, however it's up to her to make the right choices.





If she is underage then maybe you can step in a little and try to keep her away from this guy, but you have to be careful not to be too demanding or else it will push her closer to him and then she might end up doing exactly what you are trying to keep her from doing.





I guess your best bet is to be open, honest, sincere & most importantly understanding of her feelings and hope for the best.





Good Luck!!

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