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Family & Relationships
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
What
People these days are so worried about living their lives in the modern times..but why? People got along just fine in the olden days. Actually people got along way better then we do now. Relationships were stronger due to a more sound moral structure. Also men/women were more inclined to be a support system for their mate. Family's did things together more often, resulting in a better upbringing for children. Even in the work environment...do you notice how people dress for interviews or even on the job. Jeans, holy shirts, short dresses. What ever happen to a nice pair of slacks and an appropriate shirt for a "LADY" even a modest skirt. Men dress pants and a button down? I'd prefer to live back then. Mind you I'm 20 and feel this way... anyone else?
Nothing is wrong with the old fashion way. A lot of folks don't pass on down the values or views of good up bringing. We spend so much time on things that means so little the the little things that means a lot are foreign to most family nowadays. Sorry to say but it going to get worst if folks don't teach their kids the good old fashion way.
yeah. i agree.
and the tv shows for kids today? what happened to sesame street from when i was a kid, none of the wierd sexual innuendos like on hannah montana.
and why is wrong to be married at age 20?
Yes...i feel the same way. I actually posted just a few minutes ago about relationships and how people aren't honest anymore...etc.
those days are gone
its time to start something new
we cant relive the past
Its easy to look on the past as being better then the present. We are not there!
My boyfriend and I have this argument all the time. I have to remind him that if things went back to those ways we also wouldn't have all the good things that we do now. Sure there wasn't divorce...this also meant that if a man beat his wife she would stay anyway....sure famlies were more stable but that is because women didn't work. I agree that people look like garbage at work however in order to have the great personal freedom we have today it means that some will do things that others don't like.
Before the sexual revolution women were in a crappy spot. Imagine what it must have been like to have to rely solely on the males in your life. Maybe you have a great dad but what about women who don't. Imagine if after graduating high school your only options were to get married and have babies (yes birth control was illeagle) or have a lower paying job then a man (double wage standards)...hey until fairly recently in many states it was legal for a man to rape his wife...
I'm not a feminist, I just appriciate the face that I'm a 25 year old female who owns a small business (not likely back then!) and lives alone (scandalous!) I do wish that people dressed better though!
PS there are not a lot of Ladies anymore, gentelman either! sad
Nothing is wrong with the old fashion way. A lot of folks don't pass on down the values or views of good up bringing. We spend so much time on things that means so little the the little things that means a lot are foreign to most family nowadays. Sorry to say but it going to get worst if folks don't teach their kids the good old fashion way.
yeah. i agree.
and the tv shows for kids today? what happened to sesame street from when i was a kid, none of the wierd sexual innuendos like on hannah montana.
and why is wrong to be married at age 20?
Yes...i feel the same way. I actually posted just a few minutes ago about relationships and how people aren't honest anymore...etc.
those days are gone
its time to start something new
we cant relive the past
Its easy to look on the past as being better then the present. We are not there!
My boyfriend and I have this argument all the time. I have to remind him that if things went back to those ways we also wouldn't have all the good things that we do now. Sure there wasn't divorce...this also meant that if a man beat his wife she would stay anyway....sure famlies were more stable but that is because women didn't work. I agree that people look like garbage at work however in order to have the great personal freedom we have today it means that some will do things that others don't like.
Before the sexual revolution women were in a crappy spot. Imagine what it must have been like to have to rely solely on the males in your life. Maybe you have a great dad but what about women who don't. Imagine if after graduating high school your only options were to get married and have babies (yes birth control was illeagle) or have a lower paying job then a man (double wage standards)...hey until fairly recently in many states it was legal for a man to rape his wife...
I'm not a feminist, I just appriciate the face that I'm a 25 year old female who owns a small business (not likely back then!) and lives alone (scandalous!) I do wish that people dressed better though!
PS there are not a lot of Ladies anymore, gentelman either! sad
Girl taking problems major crisis?
There is a very ugghhh girl that i hate and she hates me and i LOVES my boyfriend and her and my boyfriend are friends. I hate her she is really Ugly and stupid! help! P.S - she is spreading rumors about me!
tell your boyfriend about it and tell him you don't feel comfortable that he is talking to her since she hates you and shes starting rumors. dont let them get to you. she is ovb. jealous of you and your boyfriend
i know how the bf feels. most of my friends and bf hate eachother. but i have an odd taste in people soo. i'd probably just let them fight or whatever. talk to your bf though. he's probably more helpful than i am
wow u sound so immature
i bet shes not even saying anything about you
if she is just kick her ***
but if shes just there and you hate her for like no reason then u just need to suck it up and talk to her and become friends
tell your boyfriend about it and tell him you don't feel comfortable that he is talking to her since she hates you and shes starting rumors. dont let them get to you. she is ovb. jealous of you and your boyfriend
i know how the bf feels. most of my friends and bf hate eachother. but i have an odd taste in people soo. i'd probably just let them fight or whatever. talk to your bf though. he's probably more helpful than i am
wow u sound so immature
i bet shes not even saying anything about you
if she is just kick her ***
but if shes just there and you hate her for like no reason then u just need to suck it up and talk to her and become friends
Are there any words of wisdom you like to pass along to me?
Keep your family first in everything you ever do.
Never let anyone tell you that you can't do or accomplish something.
Don't worry about life much, just go with the flow and try to make the best of every day.
think before you talk, always put Jesus first in every you do, no matter what you are doing always do your best
Never let anyone tell you that you can't do or accomplish something.
Don't worry about life much, just go with the flow and try to make the best of every day.
think before you talk, always put Jesus first in every you do, no matter what you are doing always do your best
Okay i never kissed a guy and im 15 lol A little help?
nothing to embarrassing but i have never kissed a guy. lol my boy friend said the only reason is because im not easy (lol he should know it took him 2 yrs to get me) so i need help what do i do!?! ugh im so embarrassed but i need help. I really want to kiss him but i don't want to be a bad kisser soooo help? does it come naturally?
Well if u want to blow his socks off.
Ask him what he likes when kissing.
When you know what he likes then you will drive him crazy.
Don't worry , kissing is a lot easier then you think it is.
have you ever kissed anyone on the cheek? it's the same thing, you only change the part of the face. remember how you kiss on the cheek? like not banging your head against their face, not slobering, not making your lips rock hard, just making it nice and soft? it's exactly the same thing when kising on the lips.
don't be nervous. it's the easiest thing. when he'll kiss you you'll know how to respond.
what's he waiting for anyway?
Don't rush waiting a while and being sure is much more worth the wait.
it comes naturally, follow his lead and dont be nervous!
Well if u want to blow his socks off.
Ask him what he likes when kissing.
When you know what he likes then you will drive him crazy.
Don't worry , kissing is a lot easier then you think it is.
have you ever kissed anyone on the cheek? it's the same thing, you only change the part of the face. remember how you kiss on the cheek? like not banging your head against their face, not slobering, not making your lips rock hard, just making it nice and soft? it's exactly the same thing when kising on the lips.
don't be nervous. it's the easiest thing. when he'll kiss you you'll know how to respond.
what's he waiting for anyway?
Don't rush waiting a while and being sure is much more worth the wait.
it comes naturally, follow his lead and dont be nervous!
How has your life been different than what you imagined?
I thought I was going to do really well in college and be a doctor. I thought I was going to find a really cool guy and have a wonderful relationship. I thought I would lose a bunch of weight and become more attractive so that I could kind of say "shove it" to the people who were mean to me in school. I thought I was going to make lots of money and live in a several million dollar house. I used to drive around and look at them, lusting after them and knowing that I was smart enough to acquire one for myself. Then Christianity started slipping in. I started feeling guilty for eating as much as I do. When I pass a big house, I now feel ashamed and I feel guilty about the people who have nothing. Everything I once had pleasure in is now tainted by a reality that keeps creeping up on me and screaming, "People are starving! People are in pain! Do something! You're going to hell!" I can't shake these thoughts, but I still haven't changed enough. So it's like I'm still living selfishly, only now it's tainted with fear all day. I hope I'll get the guts or whatever to just leave this materialistic stuff behind and throw myself into serving people. If I don't do that, I'm very afraid of the consequences. I'm even wondering if I've waited so long and done so many bad things that it's too late for me. I don't know. Nothing feels the same, and I find myself envying people who still live in the comfortable ignorance I once had.
at my age i thought i would be married with children. i am very disappointed about this but the only thing i can do is move on in life and enjoy myself until it happens. and if it doesn't i just still have to enjoy life. i only have one!
at my age i thought i would be married with children. i am very disappointed about this but the only thing i can do is move on in life and enjoy myself until it happens. and if it doesn't i just still have to enjoy life. i only have one!
Question for those 21 about a clingy MIL?
I would prefer if the answers came from adults only please. Basically my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years now, I'm 27 and we're expecting our first child together. Most of the 2.5 years have been living apart, just neighboring states 2.5 hrs away while he finishes getting his degree. He has his own apartment and his parents live about 45 minutes away from him. He goes home every weekend and comes to stay with me 1 weekend a month and whenever he has breaks from school. I have stayed with him as well. He is an only child, never brought a girl or woman home until me and though I love his parents and I know they like me as well his mother seems SOO clingy it can be quite annoying sometimes. Some examples of the most extreme cases were one period I stayed with him for about 2 weeks after having not seen him for around 2 months. She called him every single day without fail for the most ridiculous reasons like to tell him about something on tv, something her dog did or whatever. A few weeks ago he had spring break and although he and I had plans to go out of town together they invited us to go on a trip with them. We both agreed it would be a good idea to go, and we would spend the first half of the break with them and then he would come home with me to finish it off. Well without warning or asking us last minute they changed the date of the trip so that we'd have less time at the end of spring break. Once we got back from the trip we basically said our goodbyes and loaded up the car to head to my place. His mother called him twice within 10 minutes to ask him to come back and for us to stay there longer. He kept telling her we were on the expressway. The second call was to ask him if he could come back early, I mean seriously he goes home every weekend and I see him a weekend a month. We had about 3 days left of his spring break. Is it just me or is that too much? I don't want to seem unreasonable but it would be nice to have my boyfriend to myself for the short periods of time I have him for. I don't think it's asking too much. I know all MIL aren't like that, so I don't want to hear "wait till your kid grows up and meets someone". I WILL NOT be clingy, my mother wasn't like that, neither were any of my ex boyfriends' mothers. So tell me straight if I am overreacting, and if I'm not do you think it will ever go away or get better? With a baby coming later this year I fear things will be even worse, her first grandchild and all *shivers*. Keep in mind I have given you a very short version of some of the things she has done, there are many more stories.
she is clingy. you should observe how she is with her husband. And she probably has some past issues like everyone else. Maybe bring it up to your bf when your not irritated about it and maybe he kinna thinks the same. But when shes at her worst remember its wayy better than a MIL who is a BIOTCH!!!
Either she's a nut or your bf is a momma's boy. You better resolve it now or it'll get worse, trust me, been there.
she is clingy. you should observe how she is with her husband. And she probably has some past issues like everyone else. Maybe bring it up to your bf when your not irritated about it and maybe he kinna thinks the same. But when shes at her worst remember its wayy better than a MIL who is a BIOTCH!!!
Either she's a nut or your bf is a momma's boy. You better resolve it now or it'll get worse, trust me, been there.
HOW TO:PLEASE HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
okay.. i know this is a twisted twisted question but..
how do i NOT try to help my relationship with my boy toy?
okay i been trying to make this thing work-our whole relationship and he barely tries..
so i told him i wouldnt try anymore....so how do i NOT TRY?
ha, k thanks
If you want to end things, end them. If you don't, then don't play games. Talk to him about it. If you react like this when you're hurt, it probably won't help the situation. Just try to be honest and if he's not decent about it, consider whether or not you want to be in this relationship.
um good question most men these days hate to be put down as the one who is the screw up in the relationship so when u told him that the relationship is messing up and that the relationship needs to improve he probably dont want part of it. dont blaim him tho its not his fault!!! its just that men cant stand the words "we need improvement in relationship" they feel that the way they treat u or the things they say wasent good enough!!! xoxo
Ignore him. If he wants something, let him go get it himself. Fight all urges to take care of him in any way.
how do i NOT try to help my relationship with my boy toy?
okay i been trying to make this thing work-our whole relationship and he barely tries..
so i told him i wouldnt try anymore....so how do i NOT TRY?
ha, k thanks
If you want to end things, end them. If you don't, then don't play games. Talk to him about it. If you react like this when you're hurt, it probably won't help the situation. Just try to be honest and if he's not decent about it, consider whether or not you want to be in this relationship.
um good question most men these days hate to be put down as the one who is the screw up in the relationship so when u told him that the relationship is messing up and that the relationship needs to improve he probably dont want part of it. dont blaim him tho its not his fault!!! its just that men cant stand the words "we need improvement in relationship" they feel that the way they treat u or the things they say wasent good enough!!! xoxo
Ignore him. If he wants something, let him go get it himself. Fight all urges to take care of him in any way.
She wants some space? Drinking and Drug Abuse?
Hey. Me and my exgirlfriend have already broken up twice. We just had our second breakup. We broke up because I was neglecting her. Now, I realize I really want her back but she is hesitant. She says I have a drug and alcohol problem, and I said I'll fix it but I've made her feel so lonely in the past she doesnt want to jump right back into things. We agreed we need time apart to work on ourselves and then we could "see" each other again. I don't know if she meant "see" like be with, or "see" like just hang out again.
I want to be with her, but I agree I do need to sort out things in my life (graduation, jobs, substance abuse, etc). She said just give her time, and I said OK because it is naturally going to take some time for me to change. I've already decided to stop using substances, not just for her, but for myself. I told her I'd contact her when I thought I was different. She said if I contact her too soon she won't pick up.
What does this mean? Is our relationship over forever? Whens the best time I can call her again?
This is a really big reality check for you, buddy, and you need to recognize it. Not only are you going to lose this relationship if you don't smarten up, but you're going to lose a lot of other things in your life if you don't clean yourself up and do it fast.
Of course she is hesitant to take you back. If you are doing drugs and drinking, you ARE neglecting her, and she deserves better. By doing drugs and drinking all the time, you are showing her that you care more about this, than you do her. And she deserves better than that. She probably still cares about you, enough where she wants to give you some space so that you will come clean. She wants to give you enough time so that when and if you do get back together, she won't have a huge sense of deja vu, and the whole situation will relapse.
She wants you to come clean for good. You need to do whatever you want to do to come completely clean, and keep clean. Give this girl the space that she wants; and a good amount of space. Wait several months of being clean, and then start off slow again becuase you need to rebuild your relationship with her. It's almost like starting from scratch.
You need to prove to her that she is worth coming clean for, and you want to do it for yourself as well. Prove to her that the relationship means something to you.
Yeah I've been in the same situation as her.
Just take it slow and see how it'll work out.
You should really try to work on your drinking and drugs.
That could always help her think more about how you are trying
to make things better for yourself but also for you two.
Move on.You need help getting rid of your addisction.from one addict to the other you must find the cause of you addiction before you can kick it
WHY???? Do people want to live with such drama and disfunction? I just dont get it.
kick the habit quick or she's gone for good
I want to be with her, but I agree I do need to sort out things in my life (graduation, jobs, substance abuse, etc). She said just give her time, and I said OK because it is naturally going to take some time for me to change. I've already decided to stop using substances, not just for her, but for myself. I told her I'd contact her when I thought I was different. She said if I contact her too soon she won't pick up.
What does this mean? Is our relationship over forever? Whens the best time I can call her again?
This is a really big reality check for you, buddy, and you need to recognize it. Not only are you going to lose this relationship if you don't smarten up, but you're going to lose a lot of other things in your life if you don't clean yourself up and do it fast.
Of course she is hesitant to take you back. If you are doing drugs and drinking, you ARE neglecting her, and she deserves better. By doing drugs and drinking all the time, you are showing her that you care more about this, than you do her. And she deserves better than that. She probably still cares about you, enough where she wants to give you some space so that you will come clean. She wants to give you enough time so that when and if you do get back together, she won't have a huge sense of deja vu, and the whole situation will relapse.
She wants you to come clean for good. You need to do whatever you want to do to come completely clean, and keep clean. Give this girl the space that she wants; and a good amount of space. Wait several months of being clean, and then start off slow again becuase you need to rebuild your relationship with her. It's almost like starting from scratch.
You need to prove to her that she is worth coming clean for, and you want to do it for yourself as well. Prove to her that the relationship means something to you.
Yeah I've been in the same situation as her.
Just take it slow and see how it'll work out.
You should really try to work on your drinking and drugs.
That could always help her think more about how you are trying
to make things better for yourself but also for you two.
Move on.You need help getting rid of your addisction.from one addict to the other you must find the cause of you addiction before you can kick it
WHY???? Do people want to live with such drama and disfunction? I just dont get it.
kick the habit quick or she's gone for good
What and where can we go and hang out? my guy friend and i. . .?
That's pretty vague. What are you looking for?
Sneak into a hotel or really nice apartment complex and sit in the hottub. That's always fun.
Miniature golf?
Drive-in
Cook a meal together
Get a video camera, make chin people, and lip-sync bonnie tyler songs
At McD.
Sneak into a hotel or really nice apartment complex and sit in the hottub. That's always fun.
Miniature golf?
Drive-in
Cook a meal together
Get a video camera, make chin people, and lip-sync bonnie tyler songs
At McD.
How many couples do you know that are miserable, but stay together anyway?
With the usual lame excuses, %26quot;I can%26#039;t leave my kids%26quot; {What are you teaching your children by doing this?} Or for financial reasons, fear of being alone...etc. etc.. Just curious as to how many of you know couples like this.
I know many, many people like this.
My parents. They%26#039;re just dependent on each other and I don%26#039;t think it%26#039;s healthy. Not to mention all the crap I went though growing up because my mom wanted kids and my dad didn%26#039;t.
So in short, couples should think of the children!
80% are miserable, that is why you find that the father/mother is cheating is because of that %26#039;%26#039;Lack of happiness%26#039;%26#039;.
about 5 or 6
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I know many, many people like this.
My parents. They%26#039;re just dependent on each other and I don%26#039;t think it%26#039;s healthy. Not to mention all the crap I went though growing up because my mom wanted kids and my dad didn%26#039;t.
So in short, couples should think of the children!
80% are miserable, that is why you find that the father/mother is cheating is because of that %26#039;%26#039;Lack of happiness%26#039;%26#039;.
about 5 or 6
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Why is it all about sex???
I recently got dumped by my ex gf after it turned out she was a slapper. She gave me a handjob and then dumped me 3 days later. I was later talkin to a mate of mine who used to go out with her a few times and it turns out shes done it a million times before. The last 3 girls before her who I liked turned out to be pretty much the same.
Why are relationships all about sex?
I never want another relationship now. I got better things to do in my life.
Why is it all about sex? I feel like ive been used.
Omg,
This is so strange reading this from a boy's side of the story!
Usually it's the other way around :|
But tbh babe, not all relationships are about sex, i think you may just be hanging out with the wrong girls.
Maybe you should change your taste or get to know girl a bit better before getting into a relationship with them.
it depends on who you are with. some people make it that way, but you have to just sort of wait around until you find a relationship with someone who wants you for more than sex. i have been with lots of guys who just wanted that, and i was hurt again and again, but i have been in my current relationship for a year and it about more than sex. Girls are slutty, and most of the time its because they think that is what guys want, try to show them that you want more. they will either take it and you will end up in a great relationship or they will leave you and in that case they are simply not worth it.
Not all relationships are just about that. But there are a lot of people who think it is and that is all they want. You just have to take your time in dating and in a relationship. Know that when your are dating someone, you do not have to have sex with then right away. Wait a while and see how the relationship goes before doing anything like that. Sex should be special and not just something you because you like it or just bored.
Wow I agree I want to give you a hug as well. Its usually vise versa. Don't worry that girl will soon regret what she did to you and what goes around comes around. One day she is really going to care for someone but then he is going to end up breaking her heart. Just forget about it, its really not worth it. You'll soon meet a great girl who loves and respects you. You sound like a great guy though!
Best of luck & be strong!
dude i wanna give u a hug!
its mostly men who only want sex im glad to see that u dont.......sorry i cant help you with your problem you see im da girl most guys wanna F**K then dont care about after. but im just so happy to know there not all the same!
Why are relationships all about sex?
I never want another relationship now. I got better things to do in my life.
Why is it all about sex? I feel like ive been used.
Omg,
This is so strange reading this from a boy's side of the story!
Usually it's the other way around :|
But tbh babe, not all relationships are about sex, i think you may just be hanging out with the wrong girls.
Maybe you should change your taste or get to know girl a bit better before getting into a relationship with them.
it depends on who you are with. some people make it that way, but you have to just sort of wait around until you find a relationship with someone who wants you for more than sex. i have been with lots of guys who just wanted that, and i was hurt again and again, but i have been in my current relationship for a year and it about more than sex. Girls are slutty, and most of the time its because they think that is what guys want, try to show them that you want more. they will either take it and you will end up in a great relationship or they will leave you and in that case they are simply not worth it.
Not all relationships are just about that. But there are a lot of people who think it is and that is all they want. You just have to take your time in dating and in a relationship. Know that when your are dating someone, you do not have to have sex with then right away. Wait a while and see how the relationship goes before doing anything like that. Sex should be special and not just something you because you like it or just bored.
Wow I agree I want to give you a hug as well. Its usually vise versa. Don't worry that girl will soon regret what she did to you and what goes around comes around. One day she is really going to care for someone but then he is going to end up breaking her heart. Just forget about it, its really not worth it. You'll soon meet a great girl who loves and respects you. You sound like a great guy though!
Best of luck & be strong!
dude i wanna give u a hug!
its mostly men who only want sex im glad to see that u dont.......sorry i cant help you with your problem you see im da girl most guys wanna F**K then dont care about after. but im just so happy to know there not all the same!
How can i get them to take me seriously?
ok so i'm 21 and about to start my own ins business, but i don't think none of my employees will take me seriously because i'm younger than them, what should i do
Age in any workplace should never be an issue. It is about respect and the more you respect your employees the more they will respect you. Just a few simple rules:
Never forget you are the Boss and prove it by making the hard decisions and laying out the basic rules.
Never be afraid to take on any work in the office. It is much easier to ask someone to do something if they know you can and would do it yourself.
If the employees have more experience than you - use it. Listen to their advise and make use of their experience and give credit where credit is due.
Always be polite - say please and thank you and don't be afraid to praise their efforts.
Don't take things too seriously and try to maintain a really good sense of humour.
Never loose your temper or reprimand anyone in front of your employees.
Keep your personal life and your finances, business & personal, to yourself.
I have worked for over 40 years in offices and the best bosses I have had, and some were younger than me, followed the above guidelines.
I use them myself now and have for the past 15 years. Hope they work for you as well as they have for me..
remind them who is paying their checks
Age in any workplace should never be an issue. It is about respect and the more you respect your employees the more they will respect you. Just a few simple rules:
Never forget you are the Boss and prove it by making the hard decisions and laying out the basic rules.
Never be afraid to take on any work in the office. It is much easier to ask someone to do something if they know you can and would do it yourself.
If the employees have more experience than you - use it. Listen to their advise and make use of their experience and give credit where credit is due.
Always be polite - say please and thank you and don't be afraid to praise their efforts.
Don't take things too seriously and try to maintain a really good sense of humour.
Never loose your temper or reprimand anyone in front of your employees.
Keep your personal life and your finances, business & personal, to yourself.
I have worked for over 40 years in offices and the best bosses I have had, and some were younger than me, followed the above guidelines.
I use them myself now and have for the past 15 years. Hope they work for you as well as they have for me..
remind them who is paying their checks
Ever feel so horrible you WISH something would happen to you?
In my case, a big fight with the b/f.
I sit here thinking to myself I wish something happens to me on the way home so he can realize what he has and stop being such an ***. Ofcourse nothing harsh. But a fender bender. This is the strangest thought I've ever had. I am also in the worst mood ever so its probably from that. IDk im so confused right now. Help
This is pretty common. It's called a "Defeated Hero" fantasy. In it, you are in an accident or slightly injured (but enough to end up in hospital) and whoever has done you wrong "sees the error of his ways, realizes how special and important you are to him, and mends his behaviors because he was so afraid" when he hears what happened.
Sweetie, that's a delusion, and it won't help a crummy relationship. If your bf is a jerk sometimes, maybe he's not the right bf for you - ever consider just dating someone else? I know it hurts because you care for him, but if he doesn't care for you the same way, why on earth would you wish harm on yourself? Move on to someone who cares for you as much as you care for him, don't waste time on a doofus who doesn't appreciate you - and don't wind yourself up in the hospital over a jerk like that.
hi. I'm feeling just like that right know, but for another reason. I know it sucks, but I'm like failing all of my classes (I'm usually a straight A's students) and right know I feel like getting into a hospital b/c of a disease and forgetting about school.
The thing is that, if that really happened, I would hate myself forever for thinking about it.
The moment I think about that, I feel really bad, so I hope you don't think about it too much, b/c if it really happened, you would hate yrself 4ever.
:D if that person really is your best friend, in a week from know, u will laugh at this fight.
Yes, but not over a relationship and I wished for death. I was depressed. Be careful what you wish for because something a lot worse can happen. Work out the problems in your relationship or maybe you need to get out of it if you're hoping for destructive things to happen to you just to get your boyfriend's attention. Good luck and be careful.
I sit here thinking to myself I wish something happens to me on the way home so he can realize what he has and stop being such an ***. Ofcourse nothing harsh. But a fender bender. This is the strangest thought I've ever had. I am also in the worst mood ever so its probably from that. IDk im so confused right now. Help
This is pretty common. It's called a "Defeated Hero" fantasy. In it, you are in an accident or slightly injured (but enough to end up in hospital) and whoever has done you wrong "sees the error of his ways, realizes how special and important you are to him, and mends his behaviors because he was so afraid" when he hears what happened.
Sweetie, that's a delusion, and it won't help a crummy relationship. If your bf is a jerk sometimes, maybe he's not the right bf for you - ever consider just dating someone else? I know it hurts because you care for him, but if he doesn't care for you the same way, why on earth would you wish harm on yourself? Move on to someone who cares for you as much as you care for him, don't waste time on a doofus who doesn't appreciate you - and don't wind yourself up in the hospital over a jerk like that.
hi. I'm feeling just like that right know, but for another reason. I know it sucks, but I'm like failing all of my classes (I'm usually a straight A's students) and right know I feel like getting into a hospital b/c of a disease and forgetting about school.
The thing is that, if that really happened, I would hate myself forever for thinking about it.
The moment I think about that, I feel really bad, so I hope you don't think about it too much, b/c if it really happened, you would hate yrself 4ever.
:D if that person really is your best friend, in a week from know, u will laugh at this fight.
Yes, but not over a relationship and I wished for death. I was depressed. Be careful what you wish for because something a lot worse can happen. Work out the problems in your relationship or maybe you need to get out of it if you're hoping for destructive things to happen to you just to get your boyfriend's attention. Good luck and be careful.
I need someones advice on drugs(10 points to the best input)?
Hey all. i made a little letter it's about this guy addicted to coke.(name is fake i dont know anyone named kyle) I just wanted some more input on it. I'm not great writer or anything but one of my bestfriends is addicted to coke and and this how i deal with it.
My Love coke
Dear Love,
I am in need of help; I need you more than ever now. Youe the only one that helps through the tough times. My family was never there to comfort me. When my best friend died you were there not them. Why oh why do you taunt me with your pasty white skin. Youe irresistible to me and you know it. Your scent your touch the feel of you when youe inside me running through me. You make all my problems go away. I in debt to this guy who loaned me money. It was all your fault you just had to see me that day, take all of my money from me, but its ok I still love you. I haven seen my family for about 4 months they don like you. But they just don understand you like I do. I know that you only want to help me you only want to love me, be there when times are down. Youe my one true love we will be together till the day I die. No one gets it I just want to be with you only you. We don need anyone in our relationship. Last time I was talking to my sister on the phone she started to cry she said that you were evil your just going destroying my life but not just mine. She said that you were making her life hell and mom and dad to. They said youe not good for me your only going to make me sick then they said if I keep hanging out with you there only one path way I going to go. I just don get it why can I be with you all the time. The other day that guy I owed money to left me a message said if he didn get that money I owed him today that there were going to be serious consciences I don believe him people like that are all talk. I just wanted to write you this letter to let you know I always going to be there for you just like youe always there for me. I love you and no one ever going to take you away from me. There someone knocking on my door I better go and check to see what they want they are knocking pretty hard sound like they are going to break the door down. Well better not keep them waiting. See you soon
Love Kyle
idk they say ppl who do coke r jux lukin 4 a way out of their misery
My Love coke
Dear Love,
I am in need of help; I need you more than ever now. Youe the only one that helps through the tough times. My family was never there to comfort me. When my best friend died you were there not them. Why oh why do you taunt me with your pasty white skin. Youe irresistible to me and you know it. Your scent your touch the feel of you when youe inside me running through me. You make all my problems go away. I in debt to this guy who loaned me money. It was all your fault you just had to see me that day, take all of my money from me, but its ok I still love you. I haven seen my family for about 4 months they don like you. But they just don understand you like I do. I know that you only want to help me you only want to love me, be there when times are down. Youe my one true love we will be together till the day I die. No one gets it I just want to be with you only you. We don need anyone in our relationship. Last time I was talking to my sister on the phone she started to cry she said that you were evil your just going destroying my life but not just mine. She said that you were making her life hell and mom and dad to. They said youe not good for me your only going to make me sick then they said if I keep hanging out with you there only one path way I going to go. I just don get it why can I be with you all the time. The other day that guy I owed money to left me a message said if he didn get that money I owed him today that there were going to be serious consciences I don believe him people like that are all talk. I just wanted to write you this letter to let you know I always going to be there for you just like youe always there for me. I love you and no one ever going to take you away from me. There someone knocking on my door I better go and check to see what they want they are knocking pretty hard sound like they are going to break the door down. Well better not keep them waiting. See you soon
Love Kyle
idk they say ppl who do coke r jux lukin 4 a way out of their misery
I have dreams of my brother
It doesn't happen like everynight or anything, but it does happen here and there. I have dreams about being with my older brother's girl, who is I think 24 or 25 and I'm 21 if that matters. The thing is I am attracted to her in real life, but I don't know what to do. I feel bad but these dreams only make me want her more and more. Like I said, I do feel bad, being my brother's girl and all. But any advice you can give me?
Be very careful not to show your feelings to this girl or to let your brother see this is happening. As brothers you probably have similar taste in women so this is not unusual. Keep your distance as much as possible and find a girl of your own.
Probably because you need a girl! Dont worry just keep ypour distance otherwise the feelings might deepen and then your crazy in love with her dont show any interest or feelings in front of your bruv
Good Luck
Be very careful not to show your feelings to this girl or to let your brother see this is happening. As brothers you probably have similar taste in women so this is not unusual. Keep your distance as much as possible and find a girl of your own.
Probably because you need a girl! Dont worry just keep ypour distance otherwise the feelings might deepen and then your crazy in love with her dont show any interest or feelings in front of your bruv
Good Luck
Does love wear out with time?
True love will never fade in our lives.Our love is for all eternity sweetheart.We are,and will be together forever babe.I love you so much darling,You light up my life.
YES:
love got many forms.initially the love is physical love.we love to touch each others body,we do sex ,we play with each others body.
gradually as time passes the love changes the form and along with Physical it becomes spiritual, in which u like each others presence around u even u r not doing any thing to each others body.
secondly , initially we think only about love ,romance,sex and all that.but in course of life when we get busy in life,kids,family responsibility,jobs and related tensions and other house hold responsiblities the love starts becoming secondry to these tensions and responsibilities.
True love does not wear out but settles into a comfortable best friend relationship. The intitial red hot glow settles into glowing embers.
sometimes...
the key to a good relationship is to keep things fresh do something different a lot so that love wont go away...
YES:
love got many forms.initially the love is physical love.we love to touch each others body,we do sex ,we play with each others body.
gradually as time passes the love changes the form and along with Physical it becomes spiritual, in which u like each others presence around u even u r not doing any thing to each others body.
secondly , initially we think only about love ,romance,sex and all that.but in course of life when we get busy in life,kids,family responsibility,jobs and related tensions and other house hold responsiblities the love starts becoming secondry to these tensions and responsibilities.
True love does not wear out but settles into a comfortable best friend relationship. The intitial red hot glow settles into glowing embers.
sometimes...
the key to a good relationship is to keep things fresh do something different a lot so that love wont go away...
Is it possible to fall in love with someone
When i first heard your delightful voice on the telephone,I fell even more in love with you.Your marvelous kind words swept me away to an enchanted land.Full of miracles and magic.Your love melts my heart babe,You will always be my cute loving darling GF.I can`t get enough of your love.I will be by your side forever more.
I think you can only fall in love with humans, not sound waves.
You simply associate the voice with someone u love - imaginery or real.
lol most deff.!!! i talked to this guy over the phone and his voice waz totally hawt!!! ur voice says a lot about u!
i love my boyfriends voice. i am always saying this to him
I think you can only fall in love with humans, not sound waves.
You simply associate the voice with someone u love - imaginery or real.
lol most deff.!!! i talked to this guy over the phone and his voice waz totally hawt!!! ur voice says a lot about u!
i love my boyfriends voice. i am always saying this to him
When was the last time someone said to you
You,are so adorable babe,I smile every time you tell me,that you love me.I feel so loved by you,and so light headed too.I will treasure your beauty,and your magnificent honesty and love.for all eternity sweetheart and back.You are so amazing,my sweet darling angel.
i don't remember because my kids don't say that to me,when i tell my wife to say that to me she always say that's understood ,why to say that.
don't have any girlfriend so no body say that to me
today-- I tell my children and husband everyday that I love them and they tell me that they love me too. Life is too short not to tell someone that you love them!
Yesterday, my brother and his Mrs, bless, tell me every time we talk or see each other and I tell them. We mean the world to each other.
About an hour and a half ago...my cousin. About 35 minutes ago, my hubby called from work to check on me and our son.
Today, I always tell my husband I love him and he tells me all the time how he feels
Like 3 minutes ago when i came off the phone.
My darling husband and 2 of my daughters say it to me every day!
Just now, got a text saying it from my ex boyfriend!
a few minutes ago...i tell my kids and hubby all the time!!
today<3 (:
An hour ago.. my bf said that to me..
about 10 mins ago lol my partner is sittin right next to me lol
i don't remember because my kids don't say that to me,when i tell my wife to say that to me she always say that's understood ,why to say that.
don't have any girlfriend so no body say that to me
today-- I tell my children and husband everyday that I love them and they tell me that they love me too. Life is too short not to tell someone that you love them!
Yesterday, my brother and his Mrs, bless, tell me every time we talk or see each other and I tell them. We mean the world to each other.
About an hour and a half ago...my cousin. About 35 minutes ago, my hubby called from work to check on me and our son.
Today, I always tell my husband I love him and he tells me all the time how he feels
Like 3 minutes ago when i came off the phone.
My darling husband and 2 of my daughters say it to me every day!
Just now, got a text saying it from my ex boyfriend!
a few minutes ago...i tell my kids and hubby all the time!!
today<3 (:
An hour ago.. my bf said that to me..
about 10 mins ago lol my partner is sittin right next to me lol
Who is the last person that you kissed?
Who was the last person that you really kissed?
Someone who didn't deserve it.
My ex boyfriend.
my boyfriend<3
Someone who didn't deserve it.
My ex boyfriend.
my boyfriend<3
Needing answers!!!pls?
Wot would you do if ya saw ya ex around town or at a party with her new man???wot if she tries to say hi?ignore her?fake a smile to let her know u are doing good?had a bad breakup and dont even wanna see her again.
Just be polite and move on.
Just be polite and move on.
How can i seem older?
i am the yuongest in all my family. i am 13. i am alays trying to prove that i am older and my cusin's treat my like im still in 3rd grade its horibal
You know, being the oldest holds the most responsibility so they can set an example for their younger siblings and followers an example.
So there will be no way you can be "seemed older". Because there is nothing you can do at your age, proving something is sometimes a good deed but a greed at other times.
Your the youngest eh? you can try to become the wisest :p. Not every oldest person is wise.
by learning how to spell, first of all. second, by acting mature.
You know, being the oldest holds the most responsibility so they can set an example for their younger siblings and followers an example.
So there will be no way you can be "seemed older". Because there is nothing you can do at your age, proving something is sometimes a good deed but a greed at other times.
Your the youngest eh? you can try to become the wisest :p. Not every oldest person is wise.
by learning how to spell, first of all. second, by acting mature.
Question About Sex...........?
My sister has been going out with this guy for a few months now and lets just say hes not purest guy around. My sister is a virgin far as I know, but I'm worried she might do something stupid and lose her virginity to this asshole. From rumors I've heard that he has tried to make her do something and I'm not worried about that because it's just rumors, but as of right now as I'm typing this question she is in his truck. My dad is downstairs and she is a nice girl and I think she can do better, but her being in the truck with this guy....should I be worried. I can't imagine what they might be doing, what should I do.
Please no asshole comments
I am glad you are concerned son, this shows you care about her and your heart and mind is where it should be.
Your PARENTS on the other hand should NOT be giving her opportunity to "lose her virginity"When you become a parent, remember this and remember it well and do not make the same mistake as your parents and many others are making.
TBH there's nothing you can really do about it apart from let her make her own decisions or make her own mistakes, it's her life if you think about it. The thing that would be most likely to push her further in to his arms is you criticising him or trying to persuade her to dump him etc. We've all known women who have fallen for guys who are obviously a**eholes & meddling in it never works, it usual has the exact opposite effect.
You should just let it be. Every girl loses her virginity.
If she thinks its the right thing she will do it but if he breaks her heart afterward you should hunt him down and cut off his cock.
Thats what I would do.
talk to her. the best way to keep a girl out of emotional pain is to love her. tell her you're concerned and you think she should wait. and tell her she's worth waiting for.
First step GET OUT TO THE TRUCK! second step SEE WHAT THEY ARE DOING! thrid step if they are doing something bad TELL YOUR DAD!
or tell your dad right before doing anything.
LOOK OUTTA WiiNDOW && iiF YU C SUMTiiN DEN TELL DAD LOL
Well I guess it depends on how old your sister is. If she is an adult then you might have to step back and let her make her own decisions. All you can do is tell her how you feel and give her the best advice you can, however it's up to her to make the right choices.
If she is underage then maybe you can step in a little and try to keep her away from this guy, but you have to be careful not to be too demanding or else it will push her closer to him and then she might end up doing exactly what you are trying to keep her from doing.
I guess your best bet is to be open, honest, sincere & most importantly understanding of her feelings and hope for the best.
Good Luck!!
Please no asshole comments
I am glad you are concerned son, this shows you care about her and your heart and mind is where it should be.
Your PARENTS on the other hand should NOT be giving her opportunity to "lose her virginity"When you become a parent, remember this and remember it well and do not make the same mistake as your parents and many others are making.
TBH there's nothing you can really do about it apart from let her make her own decisions or make her own mistakes, it's her life if you think about it. The thing that would be most likely to push her further in to his arms is you criticising him or trying to persuade her to dump him etc. We've all known women who have fallen for guys who are obviously a**eholes & meddling in it never works, it usual has the exact opposite effect.
You should just let it be. Every girl loses her virginity.
If she thinks its the right thing she will do it but if he breaks her heart afterward you should hunt him down and cut off his cock.
Thats what I would do.
talk to her. the best way to keep a girl out of emotional pain is to love her. tell her you're concerned and you think she should wait. and tell her she's worth waiting for.
First step GET OUT TO THE TRUCK! second step SEE WHAT THEY ARE DOING! thrid step if they are doing something bad TELL YOUR DAD!
or tell your dad right before doing anything.
LOOK OUTTA WiiNDOW && iiF YU C SUMTiiN DEN TELL DAD LOL
Well I guess it depends on how old your sister is. If she is an adult then you might have to step back and let her make her own decisions. All you can do is tell her how you feel and give her the best advice you can, however it's up to her to make the right choices.
If she is underage then maybe you can step in a little and try to keep her away from this guy, but you have to be careful not to be too demanding or else it will push her closer to him and then she might end up doing exactly what you are trying to keep her from doing.
I guess your best bet is to be open, honest, sincere & most importantly understanding of her feelings and hope for the best.
Good Luck!!
Who was the most important person in your life? Can you tell me about him or her?
all of the ppl that are in my life are important to me in one way or another
my mom but she died almost 4years ago.my mom is still the most important person in my life because she taught me everything.I learn from her even though sometimes she gave me some tough love it was always for a reason.I love my dad because he is the only living parent right now who takes care of me and my 5brother and sisters by himself.he is also the most important person in my life.God is always #1 in my life no matter what happens he is the most important person in my life.I know he is always going to be with me no matter what
1.God
2.Parents
3.Siblings
the most important in my life is kevin!!! he is my boyfriend....ummmmm...he never fails to suprise me! he is very cute! ummmmmm.......in surprise its sometimes a hug from behind when im not looking...but the most surprising thing was when he knocked on my window and woke me up! i opened the window for him, i sometimes end up sleeping on his chest.....i don't have sex!when iwake up he has a note saying, "i'll be back tonight." or "im sorry i won't be back, see u at skool." i have been dating him for 2 years now!
since you said "was," i guess that i'll choose someone gone
my dad was extremely influential and important. he was very stubborn and gruff, but he had a big heart and always did what's best. i lost him in 7th grade and it really sucks not having a dad but i'm surviving. he was the ultimate handy man and cared so very much! i could talk with him for hours after school and i loved showing off in front of him on my go-cart. i'll miss him lots.
my mom but she died almost 4years ago.my mom is still the most important person in my life because she taught me everything.I learn from her even though sometimes she gave me some tough love it was always for a reason.I love my dad because he is the only living parent right now who takes care of me and my 5brother and sisters by himself.he is also the most important person in my life.God is always #1 in my life no matter what happens he is the most important person in my life.I know he is always going to be with me no matter what
1.God
2.Parents
3.Siblings
the most important in my life is kevin!!! he is my boyfriend....ummmmm...he never fails to suprise me! he is very cute! ummmmmm.......in surprise its sometimes a hug from behind when im not looking...but the most surprising thing was when he knocked on my window and woke me up! i opened the window for him, i sometimes end up sleeping on his chest.....i don't have sex!when iwake up he has a note saying, "i'll be back tonight." or "im sorry i won't be back, see u at skool." i have been dating him for 2 years now!
since you said "was," i guess that i'll choose someone gone
my dad was extremely influential and important. he was very stubborn and gruff, but he had a big heart and always did what's best. i lost him in 7th grade and it really sucks not having a dad but i'm surviving. he was the ultimate handy man and cared so very much! i could talk with him for hours after school and i loved showing off in front of him on my go-cart. i'll miss him lots.
Fear of getting me pregnant or somebody else?
So, my bf %26amp; I have been going out for 3 years. Getting straight down to it, we%26#039;ve never had sex. Yes, we fool around all the time. But, when it comes to him actually inserting, he never wants to. I%26#039;ll ask all the time, %26quot; Why don%26#039;t you want to?%26quot; And he answers,%26quot; Because I%26#039;m afraid of getting you pregnant.%26quot; I%26#039;ve also asked him if he%26#039;s seeing anyone else. He says, of course not. So, I%26#039;m totally confused on why he wouldn%26#039;t want to. And, I understand where he%26#039;s coming from...but, its not like we%26#039;re going to have unprotected sex. So, do you think something else is going on w/ him?
i am living that exact thing right now. I am totally paranoid of getting my g/f pregnant. im not cheating or anything its just that a child is not what we need right now and i am pro life she is pro choice so its like kinda need to be careful. Just try and assure him your on the pill taking it corectly have him use condoms or pull out if hes about to be done. this can reduce chances and make him feel a little less worried. also tell him to empty his tank before hand then there is even less c__m so its one more step. The pill, condom, and pulling out if he is sreally worried should help put him at rest. Plus let him know about your shedule me knowing when my g/f is on helps me feel a little more secure about not being pregnant.
IS HE A VIRGIN.. if he is he could just be afraid to have sex period, he might think you wont like it or something on that line. and if he really is scared of getting you prego, then just try talking to him about it like ask him and try to fix it. CONDOMS, BIRTH CONTROL, MORNING AFTER PILL, and im not sayign this is goo but just if you do get prego ABORTIONS. there are plenty of ways to get out of it. and as far as the %26quot;seeing another person%26quot; goes, i dont know i highly doubt it.
well i think he%26#039;ll do it in the coming days.(you know what you are doing by mentioning %26quot;unprotected sex%26quot;).a rubber maybe handy.just be prim and proper in the days to come.and dont make any move.if he makes a move just move away (as if you didnt want any!) soon he will be knocking on the door!
i dont think so i think hes telling the truth, all you got to do is take that fear away from him nd assure him that the risk is not very likely when having protected sex
You should ask maybe hes a virgin and is just hiding it, or hes just not that really serious with you.
no protection is 100 % foolproof unless ur planing to use the pill. a condom, spremacide cuz one alone u can still get pregnant so maybe seriously he is worried about it
he could be totally opposite from other guys and just not be ready to go all the way...shocker.
he might just want to save it for marriage
This sound weird to me. I can understand the not wanting to get pregnant, but I have never heard of a man going sooo far and then backing out at the last step. Usually things get pretty heated up and backing out the last thing on the mind. Are you his first?
Maybe he could be a little scared. Offer to take birth control on top of using something else. I don%26#039;t want to get pregnant but I still find a way to have sex.
Basically if he wanted to, he would find a way. Even if he asked you to use 5 different things. Why hasn%26#039;t he came up with Ideas and solutions? hmmm..
Good luck I hope it works out.
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i am living that exact thing right now. I am totally paranoid of getting my g/f pregnant. im not cheating or anything its just that a child is not what we need right now and i am pro life she is pro choice so its like kinda need to be careful. Just try and assure him your on the pill taking it corectly have him use condoms or pull out if hes about to be done. this can reduce chances and make him feel a little less worried. also tell him to empty his tank before hand then there is even less c__m so its one more step. The pill, condom, and pulling out if he is sreally worried should help put him at rest. Plus let him know about your shedule me knowing when my g/f is on helps me feel a little more secure about not being pregnant.
IS HE A VIRGIN.. if he is he could just be afraid to have sex period, he might think you wont like it or something on that line. and if he really is scared of getting you prego, then just try talking to him about it like ask him and try to fix it. CONDOMS, BIRTH CONTROL, MORNING AFTER PILL, and im not sayign this is goo but just if you do get prego ABORTIONS. there are plenty of ways to get out of it. and as far as the %26quot;seeing another person%26quot; goes, i dont know i highly doubt it.
well i think he%26#039;ll do it in the coming days.(you know what you are doing by mentioning %26quot;unprotected sex%26quot;).a rubber maybe handy.just be prim and proper in the days to come.and dont make any move.if he makes a move just move away (as if you didnt want any!) soon he will be knocking on the door!
i dont think so i think hes telling the truth, all you got to do is take that fear away from him nd assure him that the risk is not very likely when having protected sex
You should ask maybe hes a virgin and is just hiding it, or hes just not that really serious with you.
no protection is 100 % foolproof unless ur planing to use the pill. a condom, spremacide cuz one alone u can still get pregnant so maybe seriously he is worried about it
he could be totally opposite from other guys and just not be ready to go all the way...shocker.
he might just want to save it for marriage
This sound weird to me. I can understand the not wanting to get pregnant, but I have never heard of a man going sooo far and then backing out at the last step. Usually things get pretty heated up and backing out the last thing on the mind. Are you his first?
Maybe he could be a little scared. Offer to take birth control on top of using something else. I don%26#039;t want to get pregnant but I still find a way to have sex.
Basically if he wanted to, he would find a way. Even if he asked you to use 5 different things. Why hasn%26#039;t he came up with Ideas and solutions? hmmm..
Good luck I hope it works out.
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I WANT TO FIGHT ALL THE TIME I DONT CARE WHO HE IS I WANNA FIGHT THEM ALL WHAT GIVES?
IM REALLY A NICE GUY AND HAVE MANY MALE FRIENDS THAT I DON'T EVER FIGHT WITH. I JUST GET SO MUCH JOY OUT OF FIGHTING. PS I HAVE NEVER STARTED A FIGHT OR JUST HURT AN INNOCENT PERSON I JUST CAN NEVER SAY NO TO ONE.
it's called testosterone..you have an excess amount of it. then again liking fighting isn't really a problem. just join wrestling, boxing, kickbixing, martial arts, or street fighting classes. i think you'll enjoy it....have fun!!
We have so much in common you don't even know. I just want to beat the **** out of someone for pure enjoyment. I mean it relives stress, makes you feel like something, and all those good things. Maybe you should join the marines sometime in life, or join karate, or get a fighting career. Join wrestling or something. Thats probably the best way to go.
Its probably the adrenaline rush you get from fighting
You should let all that out boxing or working out.
Start a career as a boxer. look into it. That is exactly how many of famous, celebrity boxers became so greatly-known. You might as well be a very good one.
You need to see a therapist because all of this ridiculous anger is coming from somewhere and you need to figure that out before you get yourself killed!
hahaha you need to get laid!! Someday some dude is gonna kick the **** out of you. Fighting is so ******* dumb!!
You not a nice guy.
Join kick boxing and let's see how tough you are then.
Well why don't we meet somewhere then? lol jk
WOW YOUR REAL MACHO!
go to therapy?
i feel the same way go home and puch the bed thats what i do
get into boxing or mma...
learn how to control yourself ....
a man with no self control is no man at all ...
it's called testosterone..you have an excess amount of it. then again liking fighting isn't really a problem. just join wrestling, boxing, kickbixing, martial arts, or street fighting classes. i think you'll enjoy it....have fun!!
We have so much in common you don't even know. I just want to beat the **** out of someone for pure enjoyment. I mean it relives stress, makes you feel like something, and all those good things. Maybe you should join the marines sometime in life, or join karate, or get a fighting career. Join wrestling or something. Thats probably the best way to go.
Its probably the adrenaline rush you get from fighting
You should let all that out boxing or working out.
Start a career as a boxer. look into it. That is exactly how many of famous, celebrity boxers became so greatly-known. You might as well be a very good one.
You need to see a therapist because all of this ridiculous anger is coming from somewhere and you need to figure that out before you get yourself killed!
hahaha you need to get laid!! Someday some dude is gonna kick the **** out of you. Fighting is so ******* dumb!!
You not a nice guy.
Join kick boxing and let's see how tough you are then.
Well why don't we meet somewhere then? lol jk
WOW YOUR REAL MACHO!
go to therapy?
i feel the same way go home and puch the bed thats what i do
get into boxing or mma...
learn how to control yourself ....
a man with no self control is no man at all ...
The boy thinks I
I have an employee who I believe doesn't really appreciate the help I give him. I give him generous advice about how to stay healthy in the cold and how to wear his hair. I telling him from the heart about how he should deal with his wife and I sometimes go the extra mile by following him home and watching him to make sure nothing bad happens to him and sometimes when their arguments get too tense I call the house and ask to talk to the wife and give a false name and once I stole her car keys so that she could learn some respect.
I don't want to seem like I am judging the boy to harshly, but I am not completely sure that he really appreciates the heartfelt attention he is getting. He has told me just to let him do his work and pay him, which is fine, of course I will pay him. Once he said he would call the police, and I thought at the time that he was making a joke. But the other day when I was reading the text messages on his phone, his wife referred to me as "the stalker" and I know that she has an immature attitude, but I fear that she may be negatively influencing her husband.
What's an old-timer to do?
I feel for you. I had the same problem when I tapped my ex boyfriend's phone, hacked into his financial statements (to make sure he was balancing his checkbook), quit my job to follow him 24/7 (to make sure he was safe) and slept on his lawn at night to make sure no burglars got him. The nerve of these people when all we are trying to do is look out for them!
I don't want to seem like I am judging the boy to harshly, but I am not completely sure that he really appreciates the heartfelt attention he is getting. He has told me just to let him do his work and pay him, which is fine, of course I will pay him. Once he said he would call the police, and I thought at the time that he was making a joke. But the other day when I was reading the text messages on his phone, his wife referred to me as "the stalker" and I know that she has an immature attitude, but I fear that she may be negatively influencing her husband.
What's an old-timer to do?
I feel for you. I had the same problem when I tapped my ex boyfriend's phone, hacked into his financial statements (to make sure he was balancing his checkbook), quit my job to follow him 24/7 (to make sure he was safe) and slept on his lawn at night to make sure no burglars got him. The nerve of these people when all we are trying to do is look out for them!
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